Remembering those who serve

Memorial Day

Memorial Day

Memorial Day is for remembering sacrifices made for our country. For some, the images this calls to mind are painful. For me, not so much—no family member has been called upon to give the ultimate sacrifice for our country. Yet, there were hardships caused by military service: my dad, serving in the WWII air force, saw me when I was born in 1943, and then after the war was over 2 plus years later.

I’ve seen and heard glimmers of the sacrifices. There’s a friend who finds it nearly impossible to talk about his infantry combat experiences in Vietnam. I’ve been to the Vietnam War Memorial and been more moved by watching the people searching for a name, placing a memento, silently praying and remembering, than by the memorial wall.

But, one random event at Disneyland indelibly etched one meaning of sacrifice in service for country in my mind. Dan was about 4 and we were letting him scamper around an uncrowded Tom Sawyer’s Island. Another boy about his age was doing the same, so we struck up a conversation with his mother. After a bit of conversation, we asked her, “What does your husband do?” “He was killed recently in Vietnam.” Oh. Sinking feeling in pit of stomach, not for asking the question, but for the enormity of loss.

May God bless those men, women, and families who have given so much in military service.

Summary: vacation to Southern Utah

I finally caught up and have posted descriptions and photos of our week in Zion and Escalante. Here’s the list of posts.

Utah vacation: second choice
Biking Zion Canyon
Hiking Zion—Kolob Arch
A recovery day
Travel to Escalante
Bike riding the Burr Trail
Hiking slot canyons in Escalante Grand Staircase
Escalante to St. George
Return from Southern Utah

Our second visit with the twins

After we visited REI in Brentwood to pick up an order, we drove to the hospital in Walnut Creek. Navigating the labyrinth-like corridors we found the Birthing Center and then were granted access through two separate security doors. We finally had to show our ID when we got into the NICU.

Carolyn and Elizabeth are now swaddled in blankets and the heating system has been turned off. I understand if they gain weight then they don’t need the external heat source. We were again amazed at how small they seem (and are). Most of the photographs we’ve been looking at show their face and body, but don’t show anything to give a sense of scale. Since they are so perfectly formed, we tend to think of them as normal size, but at 4 pounds they are just “half-size” babies.

Carolyn was a real sleepy head and never roused while we were there.

Carolyn


Elizabeth was sleeping too, but since it was her feeding time, she had her diaper changed (which got her good and agitated—in fact she set off her heart-rate alarm) and was given a bottle by the nurse. She took 5 cc’s, got burped, and then wasn’t interested. In fact, it looked like she was going to sleep again, but after being tucked in again, she opened her eyes and was quite alert for some time. She can certainly hear well, because little sharp noises caused her to jump.

Elizabeth

The photos were taken without flash at ISO 1600, so they are a bit noisy and grainy.

Links
Carolyn at 10 days photo gallery
Elizabeth at 10 days photo gallery